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On Twitch, MontanaBlack held an emotional real talk and talked tacheles with his viewers about love and relationships

Buxtehude – MontanaBlack is one of Germany’s most successful influencers. In his live streams on Twitch, he repeatedly comments on various topics, with which he often offends or makes the headlines. Overall, it is rare for the streamer to be tempted to make emotional statements. An excerpt from his stream has now attracted attention on YouTube because it shows the streaming star in an unusually emotional and honest way.

MontanaBlack: “Uncle Monte suffered badly, in time, I’ll tell you like it is.”

Why is? In a snippet of his July 4th livestream, there’s a moment when MontanaBlack gets serious and makes a long statement. The streamer talks about his ideas about relationships, love and what is important to him in a partnership. The whole thing seems unusual in that MontanaBlack mostly polarizes through controversial statements and his appearances. Only recently, MontanaBlack was publicly upset about yellow letters and, with its community, ensured that a Hartz IV recipient was provided with a large number of donations.

What is he saying in the video? In the video, MontanaBlack first talks about his relationship experiences and in particular about breakups. It’s all about admitting to yourself when you’ve been hurt after a breakup and how losing a loved one can hurt your self-esteem.

“Unfortunately, you have to admit that sometimes you lie to yourself […] when you’re left, it’s not just heartbreak, but also that your entire self-confidence is in the basement for a moment. It was the same for me, chat. So much has happened, even before I broke up. Uncle Monte suffered badly during that time, I’ll tell you the way it is.”

Later, MontanaBlack goes into how he imagines a fulfilling relationship: “Dear women, listen very carefully: These men are happy when they come home and you are waiting for us on the couch or in bed. […] We come home, you give us a hug, you give us a kiss, we lie down on your chest, you scratch our head and ask, “How was your day, honey?” That’s what ends up happening at the most missing, Digga. The feeling that a person is there for you and cares about you, loves you with all their heart.

But the longer you’re in a relationship, the older you get, […] Lying on the couch together for two hours, scratching your head, getting a massage and just letting your mind wander is far more important to me than good sex.”

What is the community saying in the comments? Overall, MontanaBlack’s community is more of a community of younger people who follow his streams regularly. His honest nature is well received by the viewers in the comments under his video. The fact that MontanaBlack apparently does not often allow such deep emotional insights is also clear in the comments.

• Sirius writes: “It’s real talk the way I like it. Served fresh, deep and pure truth.”
• Jozo Grgic comments: “Great development you made, Monte. I felt every word you said. Keep it up it’s so nice to see how you’ve progressed.”

MontanaBlack – His real talks go viral

MontanaBlack has not escaped the fact that his viewers always want serious insights into the emotional world of their streamer, because at the beginning he states: “The thing is, I noticed that the clips of me talking about relationships and love and stuff, […] I don’t think any clip of mine has gone viral and been shared by people as many times as this clip.” So it’s quite possible that the streamer from Buxtehude will continue to give his fans insights into his emotional world in the future.